I was listening to the Daily Dirt on KAFE 104.1 this morning...I was SO setback by the man who is raising $30,000 for Kenny Loggins to sing to him in his living room. Really?! Couldn't you think of something better to do with $30,000? Also, Kanye and Kim Kardashian just spent $14 million or something like that on a new house with 2 swimming pools, 2 spas, etc etc. This is what is considered "successful" in America: how many pools and spas you have. Then I was just scrolling through my feed and a video containing intense child abuse started to play. Why would you waste $30,000 or $14 million on something so selfish, when you could help a good cause or donate to a center that helps abuse victims? I am SO utterly shocked by people in this world and how selfish they are, and how selfish I am- to be honest. Sure, I talk every day about how I want a new Toyota Sienna with leather interior and all the fixings; and how I want to live on the lake in a 4 bedroom house so we can take our boat out (and jet skis, obviously) on hot days so I don't have to suffer too much from the 3 weeks a year that we have hot weather. I also feel entitled to drive-thru coffee on my so-called "low" days-low on energy, low on self-esteem, low on love, and low on faith. That last one is important to this entire conversation with myself. I realized that I am so selfish because I do not rely on my faith to see me through. If I had the faith that everything will work out in my life, no matter what happens-I wouldn't need a minivan or house on the lake to fulfill my American dream. I wouldn't need a daily coffee, or even that my household needs certain things for me to feel adequate in my life. I would feel content. Everything will work out. I should use my time on Earth for good, not for self fulfillment. It's as easy as that, really. Really?! Then I peer into the Daily Dirt stories, and I realize that it is just THAT easy. I need to have faith every day that I already have a path set for me-I just need to find it and follow it. Following it with love as the leader. Content, loving,and giving are the feelings that would show up next in my life. Anyway,the point of the story is that we need to all feel content in our lives, then the fulfillment will begin! Now that I've realized I need to get over myself, I am now becoming more aware of the world activities. Even if I don't want to know about something happening because it hurts my heart, I have realized that I need to know about it anyway-I need to be aware. This world we live in isn't always rainbows and sunshine. Making myself aware helps other people in the world. Take the child abuse video for example-I know kids are abused daily...but nothing hurts more than holding your own child close to make her comfortable, and simultaneously seeing another child (similar in age) experience abuse from their own loved ones. It breaks my heart, fills me with anger, and drives my ambition all at the same time. I want to help people. I want to help babies who are being abused and neglected. I want to help a cause, to see an effect. I don't have $30,000, $14 million, or even $300 to shell out to a cause. I will donate what I can though. My time is important. Using networking for a cause I believe in is important. These two connect to Facebook and media. Think about the Kenny Loggins example-why not use networking for a good cause? Why can't the guy raise the money for abuse shelters? Why can't Kenny Loggins use his fame and this "living room performance" money, and donate it to something he believes in? Bring awareness, people. Oh, and Kimye-or whatever people call you these days-I understand that you need a roof over your head...we all do. Thank you for making me realize that simple is better. Having a small house isn't a bad thing. It leaves more time, money, and resources for me to focus on something better that helps others. (My kids can share a room-hell, it'll bring them closer together in the long run!) Houses can burn or be torn down-it's really just a shell to protect the pearl inside. Focus more on the pearl,that's what makes life so amazing!
I guess what I'm saying about the American Dream is that you can try to fill it with things...but in the long run it's the love in your life that truly matters-that will be the fulfillment of your dream. Your kids & family, how you help others, and what you do to leave a legacy behind (even if it's a small one!), are what truly matters. Make a difference in someone's life, and remember: baby steps always grow into larger footprints!
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